Suzanne Whang (TV Host, Actor, Comedian, Writer, Teacher, Minister, Political Activist, Recovering Clutterer) and her best friend Vanessa Marcil (Actor, Mother, Education Advocate, Philanthropist, Entrepreneur, Twitterer, Dexter fanatic) will give you a peek into their minds, hearts and souls.
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Suzanne Whang · 12:00 AM
WELCOME TO YOUR FIRST TAWK, BUNNY!!!
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Suzanne Whang · 12:00 AM
AAAAAHHHH!
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Suzanne Whang · 12:01 AM
Wtf? I can't see anything you're typing.
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Suzanne Whang · 12:02 AM
Jordan, Vanessa's typing and we can't see what she's typing...
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Suzanne Whang · 12:04 AM
So frustrating... she's typing and it's not appearing on the left hand screen. I'm on the phone with her.
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Suzanne Whang · 12:06 AM
no, she seems to have created a separate Tawk and that's what she's on. no idea how to get her on this tawk. can you help?
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Suzanne Whang · 12:08 AM
Grrrrrrrr
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Suzanne Whang · 12:10 AM
She's checking her email now
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Suzanne Whang · 12:13 AM
Her email inbox has crashed. Working on it
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Vanessa Dexter · 12:17 AM
wtf???????????
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Vanessa Dexter · 12:17 AM
★ Spotlighted from Ro ... :)
“Love my S&Bers!! <3”
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Vanessa Dexter · 12:17 AM
hi cassie
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Vanessa Dexter · 12:18 AM
hi
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Suzanne Whang · 12:19 AM
She keeps typing into this box and nothing happens
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Suzanne Whang · 12:20 AM
finally! Jesus.
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Vanessa Dexter · 12:20 AM
wow!!!!!!!!!!!
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Vanessa Dexter · 12:20 AM
★ Spotlighted from Sandra Byner
“Should we play strip poker while we wait?”
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Vanessa Dexter · 12:20 AM
yes!!!! send pics
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Suzanne Whang · 12:21 AM
Okay. Let's start over. Hey Bunny! WHAT THE FUCK. It's a good thing you're so pretty, because you're not technologically smart.
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Vanessa Dexter · 12:21 AM
★ Spotlighted from Ro ... :)
“Where's Vanessa Dexter?”
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Vanessa Dexter · 12:21 AM
bunster????
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Suzanne Whang · 12:21 AM
So... Can you all see Vanessa's comments now? I can finally see them, as of a few minutes ago.
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Vanessa Dexter · 12:22 AM
★ Spotlighted from carolyn grothe
“I am specifically signing up for Suzanne Whang interviewing Vanessa Dexter”
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Suzanne Whang · 12:23 AM
Anyway, let's start over. Vanessa, why is your last name Dexter on this Tawk?
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Vanessa Dexter · 12:23 AM
i dont know you did that but it's my best work
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Vanessa Dexter · 12:23 AM
★ Spotlighted from Trey Williamson
“OH well this looks amazing.”
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Suzanne Whang · 12:24 AM
Fyi tawkers, since we got such a late start, we'll go past 5:45....
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Suzanne Whang · 12:24 AM
So you're a fan of the show DEXTER?
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Vanessa Dexter · 12:25 AM
BEYOND Suzanne whang is my favorite character on DEXTER
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Vanessa Dexter · 12:26 AM
★ Spotlighted from SnB Eternally
“Yes I can see everything. Not sure you can see me.”
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Vanessa Dexter · 12:26 AM
I SEE YOU
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Suzanne Whang · 12:26 AM
Bwahahahahaha! I told everybody that we'd tawk about sex. So... here's a question for you. You are almost always cast as a sexpot. We all know that being sexy goes far beyond physical appearance. What do YOU find sexy in a person?
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Suzanne Whang · 12:27 AM
★ Spotlighted from Ro ... :)
“So, Suzanne, exactly how did you come up with the term of endearment "CockWaffles" or CW for short? Vanessa uses CW for us, too, but her version is "Crazy Whores."”
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Vanessa Dexter · 12:27 AM
someone is isn't afraid to be wrong. someone who isn't afraid to say I'm sorry. You also HAVE to be funny. otherwise your not sexy to me
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Vanessa Dexter · 12:28 AM
is = who
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Suzanne Whang · 12:28 AM
@Ro, I like to make up words, especially bizarre amalgams of words, and cockwaffle just sounded funny to me. I used it once on Facebook and it stuck. It's a complete coincidence that V also calls her peeps CWs but it stands for something else.
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Vanessa Dexter · 12:29 AM
It stand for I ALWAYS COPY SUZANNE
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Vanessa Dexter · 12:29 AM
HOW OFTEN ARE YOU GUYS HAVING SEX? Be honest
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Vanessa Dexter · 12:29 AM
★ Spotlighted from shannon wagner
“maurice benard.. he oozes sex”
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Suzanne Whang · 12:30 AM
And when you answer, let us know if it's always with the same person
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Suzanne Whang · 12:30 AM
★ Spotlighted from Jordan Birnbaum
“I'm sorry. I'm wrong. I'm very funny.”
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Suzanne Whang · 12:30 AM
@Jordan, that made me cackle.
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Vanessa Dexter · 12:30 AM
maurice oozes sex 100 percent because he is SMART TALENTED AND HIGHLARIOUS TRUTH
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Vanessa Dexter · 12:31 AM
Jordan GENIUS
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Vanessa Dexter · 12:31 AM
★ Spotlighted from Jordan Birnbaum
“Actual or imaginary sex?”
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Vanessa Dexter · 12:32 AM
actual and with a human
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Suzanne Whang · 12:32 AM
No one's answering your question, bunny. Why are we so obsessed with sex -- is it human nature, and is it fueled by religious or conservative taboos?
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Vanessa Dexter · 12:34 AM
and if they do answer they will most likely will not be honest?
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Suzanne Whang · 12:34 AM
Yes. In my ideal world, I have sex every day, more than once. What about you?
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Vanessa Dexter · 12:35 AM
Yes, twice a day like brushing your teeth #latinproblems
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Suzanne Whang · 12:35 AM
Here's what I find sexy in a person... humor, open-mindedness, intelligence, adventure
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Vanessa Dexter · 12:36 AM
its like smiling. Even if you don't feel like it. Just act as if until..... it works
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Vanessa Dexter · 12:36 AM
i like long walks on the beach and puppies
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Vanessa Dexter · 12:37 AM
★ Spotlighted from SnB Eternally
“I had a college professor tell me once that sexy is a state of mind. It's true!”
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Suzanne Whang · 12:37 AM
And massage is way underused as foreplay
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Suzanne Whang · 12:37 AM
Does porn turn you on?
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Vanessa Dexter · 12:37 AM
I agree Everything is a state of mind what you think is what you become
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Vanessa Dexter · 12:38 AM
People who bring me snacks or cook for me make me want to jump them
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Suzanne Whang · 12:39 AM
I saw Etta James before live on stage many years ago -- she probably weighed 300 pounds. But she thought she was sexy, and she moved her ass like she was the epitome of sex... and the audience experienced her in the way she felt about herself.
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Vanessa Dexter · 12:39 AM
Men love women who like themselves...
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Suzanne Whang · 12:40 AM
Is it important for you to be in love with someone to enjoy sex, or can it just be a fun activity for you?
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Suzanne Whang · 12:42 AM
★ Spotlighted from Annette Conlon
“If you love yourself first then you come across as loveable. If you don't then it shows.”
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Vanessa Dexter · 12:43 AM
I hate to say it but I have to be "in love" HOWEVER Ive recently realized that love is not what I thought it was for myself. Sometimes I was just obsessed with getting negative people to like me. PATHOLOGY
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Suzanne Whang · 12:43 AM
Why judge yourself for needing to be in love? I love you for that.
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Suzanne Whang · 12:44 AM
What have you learned from becoming involved with negative and toxic people?
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Vanessa Dexter · 12:44 AM
because I think that people who can enjoy sex without being in love are HOT like "SAM"
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Suzanne Whang · 12:45 AM
And POLLY
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Suzanne Whang · 12:45 AM
★ Spotlighted from Jordan Birnbaum
“Every time you fall for the wrong kind of person, I think it's perfectly acceptable to blame your parents. Anyone else agree?”
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Suzanne Whang · 12:46 AM
@Jordan, I absolutely think that we fall for people who are either exactly like or nothing like one of our parents, in an attempt to heal some parental dysfunction.
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Vanessa Dexter · 12:46 AM
By letting negative and toxic people close to me and my life I learned a great deal about letting go of Shame. it was the shame that drove me to try to get them to love me. i eternally grateful to those people for helping me realize my worth
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Suzanne Whang · 12:47 AM
Bunny, you truly are the greatest female friend I've ever had. In the past I've found it challenging to find someone who truly loved and celebrated me exactly the way I am, and who was always happy for my accomplishments, and never jealous.
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Suzanne Whang · 12:47 AM
And it's all because you know how amazing you are. I think self-loathing is what leads to most of the insanity in romantic relationships.
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Vanessa Dexter · 12:48 AM
Jordan What are you doing twice a day for the next two weeks?
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Suzanne Whang · 12:48 AM
Btw, the reason that Vanessa and I call each other Bunny is because of the book "Bunny Bunny: A Sort of Love Story" by Alan Zweibel. It's about his life-long friendship with Gilda Radner. The best book about friendship that I've ever read.
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Suzanne Whang · 12:49 AM
★ Spotlighted from Jordan Birnbaum
“Well, I can die happy now. Thanks everyone.”
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Vanessa Dexter · 12:49 AM
I agree that self hatred is the downfall to most relationships bunny
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Suzanne Whang · 12:49 AM
Jordan, do we need to stop now, or can we continue?
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Suzanne Whang · 12:49 AM
★ Spotlighted from Melissa - aka Bangs
“you are BOTH amazing and I am so lucky to have meet you both!! xoxo”
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Suzanne Whang · 12:49 AM
★ Spotlighted from DawnMarie Ferrara
“I just don't understand how to comment... I know that I've dealt with toxic peeps... its always been a reminder to me that Im not appreciating myself in some way...”
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Suzanne Whang · 12:49 AM
★ Spotlighted from Annette Conlon
“There is nothing wrong with wanting or needing to be 'in love'. Recognizing that you need to remove yourself from bad situations is good! That's self preservation, maturity, and self-respect.”
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Vanessa Dexter · 12:49 AM
Bunny stop complimenting me or I'm not coming to your wedding GROSS
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Suzanne Whang · 12:50 AM
You have to come to my wedding, ASSHOLE. If William Shatner doesn't show up, YOU'RE my maid of honor
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Vanessa Dexter · 12:51 AM
BANGS You are such a beautiful shining light
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Suzanne Whang · 12:52 AM
BANGS, are you still here?
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Vanessa Dexter · 12:52 AM
Are there any Rocket scientists in the house? That's sexy........
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Vanessa Dexter · 12:54 AM
I'm SO HONORED to be third in line to be your maid of honor after two LEGENDS ASSHOLE
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Suzanne Whang · 12:54 AM
Vanessa just asked me if she can "cuss" on here. Bwahahahahaha! Yes, you twatnozzle
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Vanessa Dexter · 12:55 AM
Bunny Your hair is messy in your profile pic
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Vanessa Dexter · 12:55 AM
★ Spotlighted from Lee Altman
“I am the sexiest guy here and none of you would even notice if you met me”
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Suzanne Whang · 12:55 AM
Remind me how William Shatner ended up hijacking one of our tweet conversations?
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Vanessa Dexter · 12:55 AM
@leealtman what makes you so secretly sexy?
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Suzanne Whang · 12:55 AM
Bunny, your nose job and cheek implants look too fake in your profile picture
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Vanessa Dexter · 12:56 AM
Billy is my friend thats how It's because of me
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Suzanne Whang · 12:56 AM
AHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!
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Suzanne Whang · 12:56 AM
You're a terrible liar
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Suzanne Whang · 12:57 AM
Okay, football. I love professional football, am a huge Redskins fan since birth. I never miss a game. You?
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Vanessa Dexter · 12:58 AM
I have already gotten everything done on my children so they look like me....Too soon?
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Vanessa Dexter · 12:59 AM
I love the Rams because my favorite teacher Mr Mc Cune would give us a free day when they won so......not very often
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Suzanne Whang · 12:59 AM
Yes, too soon. Now for your actual favorite "f" word ~ fashion. Tell me what's so appealing to you about it. You know I don't give a flying fuck, and you get mad at me when I don't know who Zack Posen is.
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Vanessa Dexter · 1:00 AM
i LOVE fashion its such an art form and an expression of how people really feel about themselves Like how PD dresses like a stripper because somebody loved her the wrong way Let us pray.....
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Suzanne Whang · 1:01 AM
Speaking of prayer, a lot of CWs may not know that you converted to Judaism years ago, and how much it means to you. Can you speak to why that particular religion resonates with you?
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Suzanne Whang · 1:02 AM
@Alana, PD stands for Pole Dancer. We give many people in our personal lives a nickname.
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Suzanne Whang · 1:03 AM
@Jordan, YES they should. I wouldn't like the Georgetown Gooks. If there's a petition, I'll sign it.
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Suzanne Whang · 1:04 AM
★ Spotlighted from Lee Altman
“where is the kiss the host button on this??!”
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Suzanne Whang · 1:04 AM
@Lee, ask Blake to install that.
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Suzanne Whang · 1:05 AM
Koreans are the Jews of Asia.
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Vanessa Dexter · 1:06 AM
We celebrate many religions at our house and I think most of them stand for many of the same things at their core I love RS and the concept of taking your own inventory, making amends....three times and that there is always a chance to start over
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Suzanne Whang · 1:06 AM
For the non-Jews, RS = Rosh Hashanah
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Suzanne Whang · 1:07 AM
Does it speak to your desire to release shame?
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Vanessa Dexter · 1:07 AM
I love that GOSSIP is considered one of the biggest sins..........The owners of trash magazines are gonna have a bust few weeks
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Vanessa Dexter · 1:07 AM
bust=busy
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Vanessa Dexter · 1:08 AM
Yes......I think its life changing to stop criticizing others and say we are sorry for OUR part of things
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Vanessa Dexter · 1:08 AM
★ Spotlighted from SnB Eternally
“I still can't believe I'm going to Vanessa's event. So grateful and stoked!”
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Suzanne Whang · 1:08 AM
I don't think enough people realize that all of those magazines are gossip magazines -- People, Us, etc... and just because something's in print doesn't mean it's true. I've definitely been misquoted and misrepresented by the press.
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Vanessa Dexter · 1:09 AM
@snbeternally YAY!!!!!!!!
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Suzanne Whang · 1:09 AM
What's your definition of a girl's girl, and how can we get women to support each other more?
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Vanessa Dexter · 1:11 AM
That is one of the reasons social media is changing the world in SOME ways. It is giving people the power to use their OWN voice. There are downsides too of course but that's the way most things work. It may not always be a good thing....
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Suzanne Whang · 1:12 AM
I love how open-minded you are, bun. Btw, the Dalai Lama said "The world will be saved by the Western woman." If we spent more time bonding together, celebrating each other, and less time criticizing each other, we could truly accomplish anything.
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Vanessa Dexter · 1:13 AM
.....for us to have our own platform because most of us artists are crazy town BUT its defiantly entertaining and honestly thats all that matters in the end, did you laugh? did you love? period
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Suzanne Whang · 1:14 AM
Defiantly = Definitely. Although in this sentence, she might mean "defiantly"
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Suzanne Whang · 1:14 AM
★ Spotlighted from shannon wagner
“have either of you ever fallen in love with a co star?”
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Suzanne Whang · 1:14 AM
@Shannon, yes.
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Vanessa Dexter · 1:16 AM
HONESTLY Can us women make a pact that we will stop tearing each other apart? Say your sorry to a woman that you have been unkind to and watch who ends up showing up for you at 3 am. Cause it probably won't be a man, unless your wearing garters
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Vanessa Dexter · 1:17 AM
THAT"S kind of a joke btw so please don't send me hate messages guys just relax I LOVE men But women are better in an emergency
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Suzanne Whang · 1:18 AM
Shannon, I met my spectacular fiance' 20 years ago when we co-starred in a play together in NYC. We've been friends and secretly in love the whole time... last September he chose to tell me, and now we're getting married. Miraculous.
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Vanessa Dexter · 1:18 AM
Bunny Do you have any photos of yourself licking fruit in a bikini? can you make that your profile pic thank you
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Suzanne Whang · 1:18 AM
Bwahahahaha bunny you make me laugh every day
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Suzanne Whang · 1:19 AM
I'm screaming with laughter!!!
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Suzanne Whang · 1:20 AM
Btw CWs.... I want to start an I LOVE YOU revolution. So please tell someone that you love... that you love them. What are you waiting for?
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Suzanne Whang · 1:20 AM
Whenever I hear people say they never told their mother or father or son or daughter or boyfriend or girlfriend "I love you" ~ it mystifies me.
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Suzanne Whang · 1:21 AM
Go out on a limb. There are many different kinds of love -- familial, fraternal, friendship, romantic... express it all. All of it.
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Suzanne Whang · 1:21 AM
★ Spotlighted from Rachel McDonnell
“I agree Vanessa... I've started to make a conscious effort to just smile and everyone when you are out and about and many women seem pleasantly surprised by this. Have to keep being the change we want to see :)”
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Suzanne Whang · 1:21 AM
★ Spotlighted from Rachel McDonnell
“I agree Suzanne - women need to realize that another woman is NOT the enemy.. don't know where that came from I thought men were the territorial ones lol”
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Vanessa Dexter · 1:23 AM
I have not only never fallen for a co star, I've never even dated a co star. CUT TO: what about Tyler??? We didn't work together even though were on the same show. then I left, then we called off our engagement and........scene
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Vanessa Dexter · 1:23 AM
was fun you guys!!!!!!! and so so with you Bun GFY
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Suzanne Whang · 1:24 AM
Okay, you beautiful creatures. I love you all. Thanks for tuning in. And Bunny... SMC
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Suzanne Whang · 1:35 AM
Forgot to mention this: you can follow Vanessa on Twitter @vanessamarcilg and me @suzannewhang. Goodnight!